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Friendship

Posted on July 30, 2021July 30, 2021 by harrytinkers

Well Friendship Day is here and it’s obviously time to thank all those beautiful people in your life who have added different memories to your life with their presence ….

Well who is a friend?

A friend can be anyone from a random person on the road whom you have just met or a person whom you know from your childhood… Our friendship starts from the day we start intracting with people around us and we feel that there is something really common among us.

It’s basically our electrons matching to each other which is practically true ;we like other person and start mingling with them because we share common interests and those interests give us the topics to communicate more.. The more the communication is the more the bond becomes strong…

Friendship usually becomes strong when we get emotionally very connected with someone which means we empathise with each others situation or feelings…

Friendship is something which should be cherished forever not with everyone obviously but with the most close ones. Because we are social animals Its very necessary for us to have friends .freinds always add value to your life. You grow with your friends , you learn many things from each other, you tend to share your feelings and experiences with each other you spend your very precious moments with them, sometimes you tend to know your friend more than your friends knows themself.

Friendship is an amazing feeling and having awesome friends is god’s gift to you……

Cherish all your beautiful friendship memories today and have a wonderful day…….

u are what you think

Unfairly;fair

Posted on July 9, 2021 by harrytinkers

Sometimes life seems to be really unfair when everything and everyone are disappointed with you. This usually happens with everyone over a period of time.

Some days ; the day itself starts with a very disappointing wakeup call or when your alarm doesn’t ring or when you overslept. And then all the unexpected things start happening one by one which seems like a queue of bad luck. But do you really think that happened because of your bad morning…. Nah not at all… It’s just the series of activities which followed because of the one negative thought which touched your so-called fresh morning which you think ruined your whole day.

Just for instance today my morning started with a very disturbing nightmare which made me wake up suddenly, which caused a late workout routine, followed by delayed overall routine and a late mark at office…… Then came my boss who was screaming at me all day long for no reason……

All these circumstances just spoilt my day as I explained but the reality is none of it is to related…. My nightmare is not at all related to my annoyed boss…. These were all the things which were supposed to happen to me today to make me learn many things at each moment but instead of realising what good was happening to me I was just focusing on the negative parts of my life.

It is very easy to think negative and brood on the things which are not happening.

You seem to be very irritated at every single thing and everyone when actually you are disappointed with yourself as in “why did this happen to Me at this point of time when things were going right”. Well, that happens to teach you the value of good things that happened with you because you only need light when you are light deprived. This goes the same with our life as well.

When you start feeling negative, irritated and disappointed just ask yourself that are your positivity deprived?? And trust me every time your answer will be yes.

So now is the time to stop brooding and look around you are surrounded with unlimited positivity. Absorb the positive energy and love your life. Then everything will be unfairly fair as it was and will be

u are what you think

Smile

Posted on June 26, 2021 by harrytinkers

Start your day with a ☺ …. Smile is, a gift which only we humans are blessed with. It just takes seconds to smile. So y don’t we smile regularly when it’s so easy. I feel when we smile all the happiness in this universe is, attracted to me and it’s such wonderful feeling to smile.

When you make someone smile you too get that energy back. As it’s said smile is contagious and so is ur positive and happy energy. Smile also helps you being healthy cuz u generate healthy vibes around yourself and others.

Smile has all the capabilities to make your gloomy horrible day to a very happening day. It actually works out try it once when you feel gloomy and sad just look at yourself in the mirror n smile (even of you dont feel like) and think how beautiful we look when smile and feel good about yourself and it works like magic and you instantly get good vibes and start feeling good.

Smile is can work wonders for instance it is the best way to resolve a fight I mean if you are not talking to someone because of some misunderstanding or a fight u can just break the ice through a simple genuine smile. Don’t fake it a genuine smile will definitely work out. I know it’s difficult to take an initiative but try it it’s anyways just a smile, and you are not gonna lose anything instead maybe you can mend your relationship…..

Smile gives you a reason to be happy so why not spread hapiness all around with such a beautiful gesture called smile.