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Unfairly;fair

Sometimes life seems to be really unfair when everything and everyone are disappointed with you. This usually happens with everyone over a period of time.

Some days ; the day itself starts with a very disappointing wakeup call or when your alarm doesn’t ring or when you overslept. And then all the unexpected things start happening one by one which seems like a queue of bad luck.  But do you really think that happened because of your bad morning….  Nah not at all… It’s just the series of activities which followed because of the one negative thought which touched your so-called fresh morning which you think ruined your whole day.  

Just for instance today my morning started with a very disturbing nightmare which made me wake up suddenly, which caused a late workout routine, followed by delayed overall routine and a late mark at office……  Then came my boss who was screaming at me all day long for no reason…… 

All these circumstances just spoilt my day as I explained but the reality is none of it is to related….  My nightmare is not at all related to my annoyed boss…. These were all the things which were supposed to happen to me today to make me learn many things at each moment but instead of realising what good was happening to me I was just focusing on the negative parts of my life. 

It is very easy to think negative and brood on the things which are not happening. 

You seem to be very irritated at every single thing and everyone when actually you are disappointed with yourself as in “why did this happen to Me at this point of time when things were going right”.  Well, that happens to teach you the value of good things that happened with you because you only need light when you are light deprived. This goes the same with our life as well. 

When you start feeling negative, irritated and disappointed just ask yourself that are your positivity deprived?? And trust me every time your answer will be yes. 

So now is the time to stop brooding and look around you are surrounded with unlimited positivity. Absorb the positive energy and love your life. Then everything will be unfairly fair as it was and will be

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Changes are good

Things change  everyday  and every  second actually. And it totally  depends  on how you take it forward; according to me changes are good and we should accept  the change and move on. This is life.

Life is is exciting  because  not even a second  is same as the other.changes are very important to make every moment special  for you.

It is difficult  to change instantly but day by day,  minute by minute  we keep on changing that’s what helps us to grow as well as a human being.

Ask yourself a simple question Have i changed from last year?? If the answer is yes its an achievement and if not then make some changes.
When I think about  who I was an year back I am totally amazed as how my thought process changed with the surrounding  or circumstances.

I am very glad of who I m today and will accept  the changes  as it comes forward because  if don’t  change  I will be left behind  in this ever changing  world.

Nothing in stagnant in this universe, then why are you?? The reality is you do change every moment but you dont realiise it. The day you glance on your changes then you would understand how far you have come.

Change helps us to evolve. We are meant to evolve and change everyday, everday you are different you. So why not work on making your life a little better everyday

When you meet a person  after a long  time and if that person  compliments  you saying  that you have changed (in a positive  note) this means you have evolved and its a totally  new achievement  in your life……….

My Mother : Meera Mohan Pillai


So keep changing keep living  happily. :):):):):):):););););););)